Be SELF-ishWho are you?

 …beyond being a great mom and wife, daughter, friend, school volunteer?

  • What makes your heart sing?
  • What are your creative dreams?
  • What did you want to be when you grew up?
  • Are you being the woman you want your daughters to be?
  • What kind of impact do you long to make in the world?
  • What’s the song in you that aches to be sung?


Forget what you’ve been taught about the word “selfish”— as something you would never want to be–as the very worst kind of insult– especially for a mother.

And get ready–because I’m taking back the word “selfish”! I’m re-defining it and wearing it like a badge of honor (and I do so hope you’ll copy me!)

I am SELF-ish!
I am ME-ish.
I am ME and
not someone else.
I know who I am.
I am LIKE myself.
and I LIKE myself!

I know who I am and I claim what I need--without abandoning my family. Deep down, my family (even though they grumble at first)  is happier and healthier because I am a whole person–with a personal life, a spiritual life, a creative life–in addition to my family life. I am SELF-ish– and YOU should be too! The greatest gift you can give your kids, your family, and everyone else is to be BE SELF-ish! 


What will YOU do to be more SELF-ish this week? I’d love to hear! Let me know in a comment below.
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Creative Breakthrough Sessions

Last Month’s Creative Breakthrough Tele-Call was such a hit–and awakened so many creative dreams–that I have decided to offer complimentary 1:1 Creative Breakthrough Sessions for for women who are ready to get SELF-ish and sing their song this year.

If you are ready to be the woman you want your daughters to be — or be the kind of woman you want your sons to choose, Creative Life Coaching can help you break through whatever’s getting in your way.

Schedule a :30 Complimentary 
Creative Breakthrough Session

Remember–your creativity is always working! It’s either creating possibility, innovative solutions, and magic— or anxiety, fear and lame-ass excuses. Put your personal super-power of creativity to work for you instead of against you with a Creative Breakthrough Session. It will be way more fun (and not nearly as dangerous) as your Inner Critic is claiming right now.

wishing you a fabulously SELF-ish week!


Katherine Torrini CPCC
Creative Life Coach
512. 534.1100


P.S. What SELF-ish thing that you have you been secretly longing to do–will you do this week? Share it in the comments below.  I’ll be there cheering you on.

P.P.S. Kids agree: Creatively-blocked moms are 87% grouchier, 64% more resentful and yell 42% more at their kids than whole-person moms. Just think of doing a Creative Breakthrough Session for yourself as one more sacrifice you make for them. 😉